So I just updated the writing tab on this site.  I've always been a writer--professionally, in the early days--and then as an avocation, on the side, but my desire to do more writing--alot more writing--is increasing(more on that in next post)

. Currently I blog regularly at Susan Mernit's Blog and am a contributing editing with weekly posts for BlogHer on Sex and Relationships. Decided to do a recap/cheat sheet of favorite and popular pieces I've written including the following:

• Huffington Post: Social Media Must Haves for the Recently Laid Off

• SMB: Losing Jerry Yang: Why CEO's departure reflects how Yahoo! has been broken
• SMB: What I want from Friend Feed
• SMB: 5 months on Facebook: Observations of Value
• SMB: The Battle over Bundling: Ten Top Sources and more (aka RSS & copyright)

 BlogHer favorites

• Joined, not merged: Keeping a room of one's own
• How can I ditch thee? Let me count the ways
• The Cheap Date & 15 ways to have fun ones..without feeling like a cheapskate
• I don't want to get married. Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt(and the kid)
• The end of innocence & making it big: The NYTimes spins yet another lost girl tale of innocence, regret and discreetly hot sex
• Sex for fun: do you play that or not?
• Love Happens, Or from Casual to Comitted, Trying it All Again
• My love for Patty Smith: Or, sex, gender, androgyny and freedom
• On dating younger men
• (more people have read this than anything else on blogher that I have written. Why? It is the number 2 link on google for dating younger men (LOL)
•  Not choosing monogamy, why exclusivity doesn't matter

I am also proud of this talk on blogging, sexual identity and privacy Viviane and I did at Arse Electronika: Avoiding the Emily Gould Effect: Blogging, transparency & oversharing and of this essay on what it feels like to write poetry again after a long absence.