"I'm a bad gay myself. I keep sleeping with boys. I'm a bad straight. I keep on fucking, and not getting married. I don't think I'll ever get married, even though I almost did when I was 23. I don't think I'll ever be gay or straight. Bisexual is a term that barely even fits. I gave up on this notion that I'd only ever want to sleep with or love someone of "my gender" or its "opposite" a long time ago. I don't even know what the "opposite" of my sex is anymore. I forgot before I even moved to San Francisco."

--Melissa Gira, writing in a marvelous hope it lives forever post about being geeky, queer and a troublemaker, or what she describes as "queerdo" as a lead in to a call to action to come to Equality Camp, a Bar Camp for supporting/building a movement to support marriage equality.

(Details for Equality Camp, and yes I will be there: Saturday, January 3, 2009
9:00 a.m. - 6:00 p.m.
Citizen Space, #300, 425 - 2nd Street, San Francisco, CA  94107 (unless it gets bigger than 50-70 ppl. Link to sign up here.)