I took the summer off from writing for BlogHer because doing Peoples Software was so intense. It's still intense, but I've resumed doing a weekly post and just put a new one up.

I don't want to get married. Been there. Done that. Got the t-shirt(and the kid).
"I am in love. With a person I plan to live with. Who is an amazing partner and a wonderful friend. Whom I think I'd like to grow old with, and with whom I dream of creating a merry band of progressive family and friends.

But there is no way, much as I want to show A how I love him that I'm eager to get married again. Been there. Done that. Got the divorce, the settlement, and the resolution not to do it again."

Going back over the past year, here are links to some of my other favorite BH pieces--

• The End of Innocence and Making It Big: The NYTimes spins yet another lost girl tale of innocence, regret and discreetly hot sex (Note: this is the piece that spawned our Arse talk on Sept.26 at 5 pm)
  
• Not choosing Monogamy: Why exclusivity doesn't matter
• My love for Patti Smith, or sex, gender, androgyny and freedom