I got a big kick out of Dave Winer's Facebook post--where Dave (rightly) notes that FB's how you know someone choices when you confirm a friendship haven't " been updated since Facebook was opened to people outside the education system. "

As Dave jokingly suggests, how about those selections for "delighted by," "flattered by,""fantasize about," and so on?

Susan sez: For the team that hammered together those rich APIs, updating the checkboxes should be child's play.